Are We Living Or Just Existing?
Homily for 2nd Sunday in Lent: Fr Stanley Antoni
We can be living but not truly alive.
This is not just a catchy phrase; it’s a serious reality.
If we are not paying attention, life itself can slip through our fingers.
To live is simply to exist.
But to be alive means something more. It means being:
Centered, not distracted
Connected, not isolated
Committed, not indifferent
Let’s reflect on this:
If we are centered, we are fully present. We are mindful of the moment, not lost in distractions, anxieties, or the noise of the world.
If we are connected, we nurture real relationships. We care for others, offering love and support, instead of feeling lonely and disconnected.
If we are committed, we stand firm in our values and beliefs. We do not waver with every new trend or opinion.
So, if we ask ourselves, "Am I truly alive?" what would our answer be?
Three Models of Being Truly Alive
Our Catholic faith calls us to be alive—to be centered, connected, and committed. Today’s readings give us three examples of faith-filled people who, despite their struggles, remained truly alive.
1. Abraham: The Struggle to Trust
God promised Abraham that his descendants would be as countless as the stars. At first, he was excited. But when God revealed how this promise would unfold, Abraham hesitated. He became distracted, disconnected, and uncertain.
To keep Abraham centered, connected, and committed, God established a covenant with him, a reminder of their journey together.
Reflection:
The failure to keep our promises is often a sign of weak faith. Like Abraham, we must hold on to God's covenant so that we do not waver in our commitments.
2. Paul: Choosing the Right Role Models
Paul urged early Christians to stay strong in their faith and not be distracted by worldly influences. He saw many being pulled away, drawn to models that did not reflect Christ’s values.
To counter this, Paul encouraged them to choose their role models wisely-to look for people who inspire them to live fully, rather than those who distract them from their faith.
Reflection:
Today, social media influencers have replaced parents, saints, and the Church as role models. But are they leading us to a deeper life, or just keeping us entertained and distracted?
3. Peter, James, and John: Overwhelmed by the Moment
On the mountaintop, the disciples witnessed Jesus' Transfiguration-a moment of profound revelation. Yet, instead of being fully present, they were distracted and overwhelmed. Peter even spoke without understanding what was happening.
But despite their confusion, they made one wise choice: they remained silent and reflected rather than reacting impulsively.
To keep them centered, connected, and committed, Jesus reminded them of the cross-the ultimate symbol of sacrifice and love.
Reflection:
Excessive entertainment today often dulls our ability to think critically. When we are constantly fed distractions, we lose our ability to reflect deeply on life.
Are You Living or Just Existing?
As we enter the second week of Lent, let us ask ourselves:
Am I truly alive, or am I just going through the motions?
How centered am I in my faith?
How deeply connected am I to God and others?
How strongly committed am I to my values?
We can be living and yet not alive.
Lent is our time to wake up-to live with purpose, faith, and love.
